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Girls love guys who can make them laugh; there is that famous saying after all Couples who laugh together, stay together. Obviously it’s not always easy to be hilarious, but showing that you don’t take yourself too seriously and making the conversation light hearted will stand in your favor.

If you lead an interesting life, then show her a piece at a time, keeping her intrigued. If you show her absolutely everything on the first date, then there won’t be much to go on later on. If you already read the book, then watching the movie version won’t be as compelling because you’ll already know exactly what happens. It’s more fun to be surprised. That’s one of the keys on how to get a girlfriend.

13) Get outside your comfort zone and start doing things she enjoys

If you let your social life go, you’ll become more and more dependent on your girlfriend for socialization. And when this happens, her attraction to you will diminish and the relationship will quickly become unhealthy.

Let’s say you land some hot girl by your side and she’s seems really into you – without blowing it entirely with you (you can keep her around to date) but until you’re ready do NOT settle down with her. Make yourself ready and be prepared to do things and say things you’ve never done before. If you’re not seriously committed, not much of this is going to help you get a girlfriend.

She’ll grab you when she sees a cute animal or a scary one and after you’ve seen dozens of different animals it feels like you’ve travelled the world together, so there’s this distorted sense of time like you’ve known each other for ages. Even if you’re in a bar and she’s not going anywhere it’s always good to walk away for a bit to go join your mates and give her some space so she rejoin her friends and tell them all about you. Get her number. When you feel like the conversation has reached it’s peak, make your excuses for leaving and get her number. Approach her with confidence.

• Give an excuse (after using Step 8 below) and get out of there before she’s sick of you.
• As we’ve said, women like confidence and assertiveness so make sure you ask her out properly!
• Before you jump into the “we,” you need to make sure you’re able to commit to a relationship.
• This is especially effective if she’s a romantic a heart.
• Keep it simple and ask this special girl out by simply writing it in the sand, snow, or even the mirror.

The weird, gamey stuff you do in the dating world isn’t going to work in a relationship. There’s a lot of relationship advice out there that teaches things like, “If your girlfriend is talking to other guys when you go out to a bar, flirt with other women, and make out with them in front of her. This approach to dating doesn’t feel very good, produces a lot of anxiety, and is not the best way to start a relationship. When you know what you want, and don’t want, in a relationship, this puts you into the role of the selector. Instead of pursuing every single beautiful woman, hoping she’ll shower you with her attention, you’re being selective about who you want to be your girlfriend.

Some of the tactics above can backfire big-time. Start a list with the girl you like about the things you have in common.

This is a natural extension of the last step. If women want to feel attractive but not let it dominate their personality, and they want to be listened to and respected, they obviously want a man who gives them these feelings.

She’ll also be more comfortable. And the social pressure of having sex will decrease, as she feels more comfortable with you.

Part Two of Three:Make Her Feel Special

The more dates you have, the better you’ll get at holding conversations with the opposite sex. Don’t try and be too direct or flirty. Just be a nice guy and get to know who you’re chatting to. These apps are incredibly popular for a reason.